Wednesday, June 08, 2011
As I was six months pregnant .. and as I buried the corpse of my very short-termed senseless marriage, since it was dead from the very beginning
I realised that there's a big responsibilty that I'm going to handle on my own ..holdon to my faith to stand against the objecting comments on the bless of getting pregnant, and gently prepare myself to the thought of being a single parent.
I started to do my readings..I found myself looking at posts by other single mothers to see what it likes ..different stories .. but there were few threads that linked them together .
they all appreciate and enjoy the grace of motherhood , they all work hard to make their babies healthy and happy ,and they all feel sorry for the biological fathers for missing out on alot .
but what caught my attention is the fact that they referred to the absent biological fathers as "sperm donors" .
which sounded more than fair to me ,cuz that merely all what they did ! but donation had always been implanted in our heads as a positive thought .. donating means giving
and whether he intended to give away something or whether it was nothing but seeking pleasure..whatever it was !
he somehow did her a favor , and Mind You ! it takes alot to see that !
so for me as a single mom I reached a level of happiness and Satisfaction that I can admit it and take out this gratefulness out his own filth.
it's the least thing he can have in return for being accidently part of it ..since poor him !
and males like him are definitely missing out on alot ! ..not to mention the fact that he is generous enough or maybe pathetic to give up on his own share of this tremendous Godly gift and let me have it all .
it's just like giving up on a life-time job and retiring just cuz u have some sparkling fake coins in ur pocket..how smart does that sound ?
and NOW im the one who get to hold this soft lil hand while I sleep ..and im the one who get to see that innocent smile and thankful glowing eyes on that pretty face..and im the one who work to provide her with what she needs..im doing it all ..im supporting her emotionally and financially
and -All Thanks To Allah-that gives me so much power..and make me sleep with a smile of contentment on my face : )
That's why I'm grateful to a male ..and sorry for not using a Man ..cuz a Man is "a male who uses his brain "..Best wishes to every male out there,This is a letter from a single mom
you're not all crappy, cuz at least
you made a girl
become a mom and be happy ; ) " .
March 28, 2012 at 7:20 PM �
It takes so much power to be a single mother, You are very strong and faithful.
I wish you the best.